It is truly sad to enter a committed relationship with good intentions and then realize that you both were not as prepared as you thought you were, for the relationship and marriage you want. This is what you need to learn, heal, and deal with.

This structured program is what you need to learn, heal, and deal with in order to have the relationship and marriage you want

These events make a difference but there is only so much you can learn (and retain) with a few hours of teaching. To make matters worse, most of these events are not recorded so even if they are longer, there is no access to the content you learned for future reference

Relationship events are informative but not as transformative

You know exactly what I am talking about. You leave these events with emotions high and  “blown away” by how good the content is. But after a few days, you realize you didn't change. There wasn't an element of “working” on yourself

Counseling - Necessary but too late, too short, too light, or too unstructured.

You are in a relationship now and both want it to “work” but you are not on the same page

You both want this but you have had years of separate “preparation” for relationships/marriage. You need something that helps you get on the same page about the things that matter in the relationship

It’s not easy to have awkward but necessary conversations

It’s not always easy to create safe spaces to have conversations around critical things that will make or break your relationship/marriage. Sex, family background, financial minset, communication skills, attraction, expectations, God’s role and so on

Practical and Godly can be hard to find

Practical is out there. Godly is out there. Practical and Godly is the ideal and unfortunately, that is hard to find.

I went to church, I served in church, I believed in the importance of having a great relationship/marriage and I was even motivated to have it. The only thing missing was “finding” someone who was like that too and we’d be good to go right? Not even close.

  • I had never really evaluated my mindset about relationships
  • I had never really evaluated by family background in a structured/guided way
  • ​I had never really worked on healing from the pains of my past (and not just past relationships)
  • I had never really identified the fears I had lurking as I entered relationships
  • I had never realized the incredible strengths I was bringing into a relationship/marriage
  • I had never deeply evaluated my sexuality mindset
  • I had never truly understood how the grace of God showed up in a marriage

What happens when you become that person

And you work on all those areas?

A deeper, more transparent relationship/marriage

You become a true enabler for the relationship/marriage you want

You create the healthiest foundation for the relationship/marriage you want

You set your marriage up for success

introducing

A Bible based, transformative self paced course (with lifetime access) on what you need to learn, heal and deal with to be ready for (and have) the fulfilling marriage you really want. 

A biblical and practical approach to relationships, courtship, choosing a spouse, and transitioning into marriage

The THINKING You Bring

The BROKEN SELF You Bring

The TOOLS You Bring

The VALUES & EXPECTATIONS You Bring

The GRACE You Bring

Module 1: The THINKING You Bring

Principles You BOTH Need To Understand

The goal is to understand deep/ foundational principles and thought processes people bring into marriage that can make or break a marriage

  • Learn the 5 Perspectives that help you set the right foundation for realistic expectations of love and marriage

  • Understand the flawed processes of selection and the reasons why otherwise nice people end up in the wrong marriages

  • Get an expanded view on The Three Lusts, how they function (sometimes AT WILL) in marriage and in your life and learn how to stop them from becoming liabilities in marriage

  • Understand God’s view vs the world view of marriage and the (often ignored) elements in God’s original plan (+how to apply them in your marriage)

Module 2: The BROKEN SELF You Bring

What You BOTH Need To Heal

The goal is to emerge having dealt with past conscious and unconscious pain or wrong environmental conditioning

  • God’s standards for your life may have been broken in your past. Find and HEAL them

  • Step by step guide to evaluate the “Family of Origin” issues you have been carrying. Learn how those issues show up in marriage and how they relate to the standard of Christ in marriage

  • The 6 relationship pillars based on your family of origin

  • A Prayer guide that will help you to pray over the broken standards in your life

  • The 5 pains and fears of broken relationships. How they can affect us in marriage

  • Deal with and get more closure on broken relationships (Most people don't realize they need it)

  • Your true hidden beliefs about yourself and the opposite sex (And how these two beliefs affect your relationships)

Module 3: The TOOLS You Bring

What You BOTH Need To Learn

The goal is to learn and acquire important capabilities that enable the relationship and marriage to not only work...but THRIVE

  • Learn the critical spiritual tools that you should both bring into marriage and how to start acquiring them now in order to have the 3 - cord marriage we all talk about

  • Learn what it REALLY means to be financially prepared for marriage, identify what a toxic relationship with money looks like and get tools to evaluate yourself

  • Using the Bible, learn the two relational tools that are rarely ever talked about at relationship events but are crucial to relationship and marriage survival..and how to get them

  • The 3 communication tools that are making and breaking even Christian relationships and marriages

Module 4: The VALUES & EXPECTATIONS You Bring

Who Are You and What Do You REALLY Want?

The goal is to (a) Discover the values that drive you as a person so that you are able to communicate it to your significant other (b) Emerge having clearer, more grounded expectations of your spouse and (c) Emerge with a clear purpose and mission for your marriage

  • Learn how to identify and articulate your own core values so that you can properly communicate them to someone else

  • The power of a Marriage Mission Statement and a step by step formula for writing yours

  • Forget your “list”. Get a step by step guide to prayerfully write a list that is actually meaningful to you and customized for you

  • 4 critical things you need to do with your new list and your Marriage Mission Statement

Module 5: The SEX & INTIMACY NEEDS You Bring

Managing Your Intimacy Needs as a Believer

  • 2 simple but important things to keep in mind when dealing with guilt and the weight of sexual sin in relationships.

Module 6: The GRACE You Bring

Working by Grace

The goal of this module is to help you understand the role of the grace of God, position your marriage  to receive the grace of God (even before it starts), and guide you on the path to confirmation

  • How to position your marriage to receive and function in the grace of God....even before your marriage starts, and well into it.

  • Confirmation: The paralyzing things that hide behind confirmation

  • The signs of God’s confirmation and how to apply that in your relationship

  • What confirmation IS and is NOT

Enroll now and get these additional bonuses!

Multiple Devices

No matter where you are or what device you are on, you can be immersed in the course.

So whether you are on the road or in the comfort of your home you can keep learning, growing and transforming yourself.

Ideally, this course will take you about 6 weeks but since you have continued access to the content, you can take 10 weeks or 20 weeks to complete it. It's up to you. You can go at your own pace.

Yup! You get transcripts of each lesson so if you just want to download and read instead, you can do that. Also, deep introspective worksheets are sprinkled throughout the course to guide you on your journey from information to transformation. What's even better? The worksheets are editable PDFs so you can download and fill in right on your device

30 DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE!

I am so convinced that you will get so much value out of this course, that I am offering a 30

day money back guarantee. Yup.

If after 30 days, you feel like you have not gotten any value out of this course, send an email and your money will be refunded. Its that simple.

I prayerfully developed this program after speaking to thousands of singles at events and the clients I have coached from all over the world and I know that if you prayerfully take this course and immerse yourself in it, you will emerge as a better version of yourself that is better prepared for marriage in all the areas that matter.

6 Core Modules and Over 27 Lessons!

Real Life Impact

Collage Testimonal

Tolu

Tammy

you asked

(...and these are great questions)

Q1: We already have access to premarital
counseling that we can/will go through

This is not an alternative to premarital counseling. This is a critical supplement to it. If you can, take this before marital counseling. If you’ve already started, the Ready For Forever course serves as a critical basis for premarital counseling. It will help to bring up issues and help to resolve them as you move through counseling. In fact, the truth is that premarital counseling alone the way most people get it, is not enough because while most counseling is informative, it typically doesn't involve transformative or behavioral correction elements

This is not an alternative to premarital counseling. This is a critical supplement to it. If you can, take this before marital counseling. If you’ve already started, the Ready For Forever course serves as a critical basis for premarital counseling. It will help to bring up issues and help to resolve them as you move through counseling. In fact, the truth is that premarital counseling alone the way most people get it, is not enough because while most counseling is informative, it typically doesn't involve transformative or behavioral correction elements

Q2: I am single...why do I need this?

  • To work on yourself and bring your best self to your future relationship/marriage even if you don't know who your spouse will be

  • To have a clearer vision of what you are looking for in a spouse

  • So you can heal from past relationships and have more closure

  • Because the best time to work on yourself and deal with “stuff” is not necessarily when you meet a wonderful person. A deeply flawed version of you will still ruin a relationship with a great person 

  • Because the best time to prepare for a Godly relationship is before you meet someone without the pressure, and distractions. This will be the easiest time for you to concentrate on yourself and make the changes you need to make in yourself

Q3: We are not that “serious”. Do I/we need this?

Of course! Are you kidding? Think about it. Isn’t this the best time to go through a program like this? SO THAT you can understand things better and make a better decision? So yea. For sure.

Q4: We are in a great place right now. Is this still useful?

Have you heard the saying “The best time to work on understanding each other is before your misunderstandings get to work”. So yea. If you are in a good place, awesome. Dive right in and it will be one of the most meaningful things you have done for the relationship.

Q5: We already completed this premarital
counseling and are almost married

Good for you! Premarital counseling is “awesome” but most premarital counseling programs at most churches are not as structured, as detailed and as intense as this. Most don’t get to the “work” part of the equation. This course is EXACTLY what you need as important supplemental material that you can always have access to.

Q6: How long do I have to complete this?

​That's up to you. That's part of the beauty of this. You figure out what works best for you and stick to it. I've seen people do this in just a couple of weeks and others take a couple of months. My advice is to just make it a priority so you don’t lose momentum.

Q7: Will my access expire?

Nope. All participants have lifetime access

The structured program with what you need to learn, heal, and deal with in order to have the relationship and marriage you want

IJUSTMETME

Ready For Forever is a program of IJustMetMe
For questions please contact us at readyforforever@ijustmetme.com